I just bought my ipod and all the software is installed, but when I plug it in to transfer music it says it needs an update. So the update box comes up and it dose'nt give me the option to update, just restore. So since I dont have anything on there yet, I clicked restore. It tells me that the ipod isnt plugged in, when Ive checked the connection numberous times. Now all I can see on my ippd is the apple logo and a file with a "!" next to it. Any tips to help me to be able to transfer?